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Christmas lists are starting and children are excitedly writing down what they want from Santa this year. What happens when all your little one wants for Christmas is a puppy? Every parent wants to make their children’s wishes come true, but how do you decide whether or not a pet is the right wish? As an animal behaviorist and pet sitter for over 15 years, here are some suggestions to keep in mind before rushing out to the local pet store this year.

Nothing is more exciting than seeing your child’s eyes light up when they see a puppy with a big red bow under the Christmas tree.  As adorable as puppies, kittens and bunnies are, there are some real issues that need to be addressed. They grow up and live for at least 10 or more years. Is your child ready for a long term commitment? Are they old enough to take over the responsibilities of feeding and care? Did you know that bunnies are territorial? I was actually attacked by my pet rabbit and it took me two weeks to get the courage to pet her again. Not a fun lesson to learn for a child!

How much space do you have? As much as giving a pony for Christmas is a dream come true, this little pony won’t be so cute when you have to shovel all of the manure out of your driveway or back yard. I LOVE Hippopotamuses, but I am sure my neighbors wouldn’t enjoy seeing one in their breakfast window while having their coffee. Space considerations are important. Kittens are great for indoors and smaller spaces, puppies need space to play and a backyard, and small cage bound animals are great for apartments. Pot belly pigs are absolutely adorable, but they grow into LARGE pigs. This fact was a surprise to many owners, because they were supposed to be great for apartment living. These owners either had to rehome them or move to the country to provide suitable homes outside for these adult pigs.

Don’t get a pet for your child that terrifies you! I have to reiterate this last point! Don’t believe that your child will be the only one taking care of the pet tarantula, no matter how much they promise. If spiders terrify you, don’t buy one for your child. It will inevitably get out of its cage one day, you will be left alone to find it. Just the thought of turning over in my bed to find a tarantula on my pillow is enough to send me packing! I have heard many stories where a child became afraid of the favored pet and it was up to mom and dad to show them how to not be afraid. Remember this when purchasing those exotics like snakes, geckos, hedgehogs, etc.. What is cool in a cage must be all right outside of the cage too.

In determining what would make the best pet for your child, evaluate your child’s interests. Get a pet that would enhance what they are already interested in. If you child loves fishing, consider a fish tank. As an energetic child who loves to play and run, a puppy would be a great companion. Some puppies, such as Border Collies are glued to their owners. They are even known to be the best guardian for children. For your bookworms or computer enthusiasts, a cat makes a formidable partner. They love to play for short periods of time and don’t require long walks in the park.

Finances are always a concern, a pet for Christmas is the gift that gives and gives and gives….. Pets are the truest example of unconditional love, but it takes budgeting to take care of them properly. Buying the pet is not the most expensive part of the gift, the money it takes to keep up their care is where the financial concerns come into play. Who is going to take care of the pet when it gets sick? Who will take care of the bills?

So, when your child wants a Hippopotamus for Christmas, ask yourself these questions – “Are we ready for this responsibility? Do we have the money for its care? Am I afraid of it? What would be the best playmate for my child?” If you evaluate carefully, you could be getting your child the best gift EVER!!!! (and not the pet that ruined Christmas!)

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